"Não ande atrás de mim, talvez eu não saiba liderar. Não ande na minha frente, talvez eu não queira seguí-lo. Ande ao meu lado, para podermos caminhar juntos."


Para aceitar contar à reportagem de A TARDE  sobre o que aconteceu
durante o período em que sofreu assédio moral, Lúcia (nome fictício)
fez uma série de exigências. Além de não revelar a sua identidade, ela
também omitiu a atividade que exercia e o nome da empresa onde o fato
ocorreu. Tudo por receio de que o pesadelo que viveu voltasse a
acontecer.


Ela conta que seu antigo chefe usava critérios diferentes entre os
funcionários. Lúcia sempre ficava com uma sobrecarga de trabalho muito
maior em relação aos outros colegas do setor. “Meu chefe chegou a criar
uma função de coordenação do setor, que nunca existiu, e ofereceu para
um colega que tinha acabado de entrar na empresa. Sendo que eu já tinha
muito tempo lá dentro e sempre resolvia muito mais coisas do que ele.
Tudo era feito para me humilhar”, recorda.


O assediador passa uma imagem de poder que, na realidade, não existe.
“A situação é tão rotineira e reiterada que você acaba aumentando tudo.
A pessoa se torna  maior e mais poderosa do que  realmente é”, afirma
ela, já recuperada do trauma.


Em determinada ocasião, Lúcia se ofereceu para organizar um evento da
empresa, em um dia que  não afetaria em nada a sua jornada de trabalho
normal. Mas o chefe implicou com a iniciativa e ameaçou demiti-la caso
não desistisse da empreitada. Foi nesse dia que, após muitas
perseguições, Lúcia passou mal. Com receio de ser demitida,  começou a
chorar sem parar, sentiu as mãos formigarem, perdeu os sentidos e
desmaiou. Só acordou no hospital.


“A sensação é a de que eu estava trabalhando com um inimigo, que a
qualquer momento faria algo para me prejudicar. Quando eu via um e-mail
dele que não tinha título ou assunto, eu evitava abrir pela manhã,
porque sabia que poderia ser uma coisa ruim e eu não conseguiria
trabalhar o resto do dia”, lembra ela, que guardou todos os e-mails
trocados com o antigo chefe, para servir como possíveis provas no
futuro.


Lúcia ainda pensou em denunciar o seu algoz, mas depois desistiu.
Segundo ela, que foi transferida para outro Estado para se livrar do
problema, a melhor coisa que o assediado deve fazer é compartilhar suas
angústias com parentes e amigos, para agüentar o período turbulento.

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